OhdearRia

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fourteen years

Today is fourteen years ago, that we promised to love each other til death apart us. Fourteen years, two kids, hundred’s of fights and make ups, two dogs (one deceased), three choocks, a tank full of fish, two homes, a handful of times I wanted to murder you…. I can’t believe that you have to put up with someone like me for this long! 🙂

Marriage is not perfect. Marriage is by no means easy. But if you are lucky enough to find someone who complement both of your good and bad that’s what makes it all worth it.

Happy 14 years to my love and for standing by my moments of both tears and laughter in our life together.

ohdearria

November 6, 2013

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12 responses to “fourteen years”

Jalanjalan “JalanJalanLiburan” Liburan

November 7, 2013 at 5:38 am

Lovely….Have a blessed wedding anniversary mbak Ria 🙂

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 7, 2013 at 7:59 am
  
  Thank you darling!😍
  
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me

November 7, 2013 at 6:30 pm

Yep that sums it up. Think I’m the lucky one.

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 11, 2013 at 12:37 am
  
  You’re the luckiest man alive, Babe!😉
  
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nyonyasepatu

November 9, 2013 at 7:12 pm

huaaa 14 taon aja yaa mba Ria 🙂 selamat yaaaa

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 10, 2013 at 8:57 am
  
  Iya Non….lama aza yaks😛😉 Thanks darling!
  
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nisa

November 10, 2013 at 11:52 pm

14yearrsss how sweet !! .there must be much effort to maintain ya mba buat selalu saling ngisi 🙂 anyway happy anniversary mba ria.smoga langgeng till death do part.ngikik dibagian kalimat murdered you itu..its sooo me klo emosi lagi membuncah ahahahaha.
share tips2 dong mba for “break ups n makes ups” buat pemula macam sayaaa ^^

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 11, 2013 at 12:49 am
  
  Ma kasih Nisa😘 Oh yeah maintenance-nya lumayan banget utk bisa nyampe 14 years, misalnya sering2 dibolehin shopping2, sering2 dibolehin ‘pulkam’ tanpa membawa gembolan 2 bandits gue itu…lol! Joking!
  
  Aku juga orangnya esmosian koq. Lbh byk make perasaan utk berpikir daripada rasio. Jadi sering disitu clash nya. Krn pada dasarnya laki2 lebih ke ‘otak’ drpd ‘hati’ kan? Yg penting kita hrs tau aza kl lg berantem kpn hrs ngalah dan kpn hrs maju terus pantang mundur :p Misalnya, kl lg pengen sepatu yg lucu itu or tas yg super cool itu, nah jangan mau ngalah….lol!
  Kalo kata org tua jaman dulu, if you can get thru the 1st 5 years in your marriage then it will be forever. Bole percaya bole ga 🙂 Kalo aku bilang yg penting selalu komunikasi dan honesty. Stay cool, Nisa. xx
  
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Maureen@ScoopsofJoy

November 12, 2013 at 10:27 am

Awww isn’t that the sweetest?! I love, love, love reading this. Congrats and happy anniversary to you two love birds.

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 14, 2013 at 4:29 pm
  
  Thanks Maureen 🙂
  
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Lorraine

November 17, 2013 at 3:47 pm

Ria & husband, A bit late but I want to wish you happy anniversary! Cheers to more years to come.

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1. ohdearria
  
  November 17, 2013 at 3:49 pm
  
  Thank you my dear 🙂
  
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