A loner is someone that prefers not to associate with others, that is according to mister google. But in my opinion a loner is a person who likes being alone and is happy being on his own. The thought of being alone sometimes is scary, but I do think it depends on the way you look at it. I like being alone, not most of the times, but I don’t mind being alone if I have to.
I have traveled alone many times, when I was single and even now married with two children. Almost three years ago I flew a long haul flight by myself and did some of the sight seeing just by myself. I got lost many times but I also made friends 🙂 I often go shopping alone too, which is for me is the best. Sometimes when I shop with my girlfriends I end up don’t get what I am looking for because we are too busy talking or helping another friends find what they are after. But it doesn’t mean I don’t like going shopping with my friends, I do but usually I just company them or window shopping 😀 Eating alone at the restaurant I don’t mind, especially when I travel by myself I have no choice. Perhaps, going to the movie alone is the thing that I have never done so far.
I sometimes need to be alone to refuel, to re-charge, to wonder. I am comfortable in a small group of people, and feel lost among big group. I do like having friends, chatting to people, but I am also comfortable being on my own. Perhaps this sums up my personality: 🤓⬇️
What about you? Are you the type of person who always need people around you? Do you always need a friend to go shopping ? Have you ever been eating out at the restaurant by yourself?
Happy Monday from this part of the world!